SOULMATE

Soulmate is a term sometimes used to designate someone with whom one has a feeling of deep and natural affinity, love, intimacy, sexuality, spirituality, and/or compatibility.

Many people believe that soulmates can accept and love every part of the other's personality and that life with a soulmate is easy and natural. Soulmates are individuals who both want their relationship to be a great one. Their relationship feels like a natural fit, it is not hard to do because they have a sense of being at ease and connected with one another.

Some believe that a soulmate is someone with whom a person has shared other life times through reincarnation. The soul mate could be a friend, business partner, parent, child, sibling, spouse or other family member. These soulmates can be of the same or opposite sex. Some people believe that individuals are drawn together as soul mates by destiny or fate and that being with our soulmate is something we have no control over.

Our soulmate is someone who shares our deepest longings, our sense of direction. Someone who has the locks to fit our keys, and the keys to fit our locks.Someone to whom we feel profoundly connected, as though the communication and communing that take place between us were not the product of intentional efforts, but rather a divine grace. This kind of relationship is so important to the soul that many have said there is nothing more precious in life than having a SOULMATE.

"TIL DEATH DO US PART"

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I feel bad, I have colds and it really got me though I'm ignoring it for few days now. Yesterday it got worst i have to take the advice of my friends to take it easy and rest.

I don't consider colds and flu as something i should take care of. I would just go around and do my normal things even if i got fever. Usually colds will take only 2 to 3 days for me to tackle with but this time its getting me and the worst my son got the virus from me too and had him skip school today!!! d--n!!!

What makes me feel so bad was last Friday was the interment of my best friend's husband. I really wanted to be there for my friend Helen but some old folks told me.. its not good for someone who is sick to attend funerals. It could worsen and it could lead to death....waaahhhh i don't know where this superstitious belief came from but it kinda scare me... what if its true mmmmm i decided not to risk going anyway not only of the superstitious belief but of the scorching heat that could be fatal for my colds... that surely could lead to something bad for me..

Helen's story is so interesting.. as i had written in my blog few months ago, her husband had bone cancer surgery. He had been totally bedridden for more than 2 years and the worst was , he couldn't move any part of his body. He was a total vegetable and Helen was with him all thru those days he was suffering. They had spent millions of money for hospital bills. I remember Helen telling me one time I had ask her how she could take it all.. she just recited to me this phrase... "For better or for worst for richer and poorer... til death do us part" then I knew LOVE can be a very amazing thing. I remember how beautiful and pretty she was when she was wedded to her husband 20 years ago and was so in love i thought that could be a never ending love story for them.

Last few months, Helen had surgery for myoma while her husband was at home and cant do anything to support her in the hospital as he was bedridden. I had to volunteer assisting her. I am a person who would faint if i see and smell blood but that time i knew she needed me so i had to rally up my courage and be there right outside the operating room. When i saw her being brought to the recovery room and saw her pale and unconscious, all blood was drained from me. i sat at the couch and feel myself about to faint. I ask the nurse how long she had to stay in the recovery room and the nurse told me she had to stay for 2 hours there before she will be brought to her room. So the nurse told me to wait in her room until she is brought there and this relieved me coz i really need to lay down, i feel I'm ready to faint. The nurse must have sense that!!

I feel so sad when i remember the last time i had chatted with her husband. He was so full of hope even in his situation. He was hoping for a miracle and it really squeezed my heart. So many times Helen had to run away from him to hide the tears in her eyes. She is a very strong woman.

Love can endure it all, and love can conquer all. Relationships cant last forever... but love surely can last beyond forever.

Anyway, I have to run but before i go i want to greet all mothers..."HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY" Some mothers are kissing mothers and some are scolding mothers.. but it is love just the same.. and most mothers kiss and scold together... HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY to all kissing and scolding moms out there.

HAVE A NICE DAY EVERYONE!!!

I Will Always Love You

Before I met you,
I was badly hurt from a relationship that fell apart,
I didn't wanna live no more
I just wanted an end,
I thought nothing could cure me,
My heart would never mend.
You walked into my life
and brightened my day.
I didn't wanna be with you,
'Cause I thought you'd hurt me someday.
I gave you a chance to see if that was true,

Something was different and you were something new.

Then, I know what your love is truly about,
your sweet, honest, and lovable,
something I can't live without.
I hope that this love will last,
Because you know I'll always love you,
I hope we'll never part,
because I know you love me too...

SAYING I LOVE YOU

Today is another day....

I feel i want to hold time and just make it stop from ticking. I want time suspended and stop people from getting old. I want to treasure the past and enjoy precious moments i had with loved ones and friends.

How can I ever suspend time? I have this feeling that unless i do this i wont be able to save the lives of my loved ones who are now old and suffering from the pains this world brings. Mortal body yields and soon all i can do is treasure memories.

There are moments in my life when i miss someone- loved ones and friends i treasured...
so much that i just want to pick them from my dreams and hug them for real.

But i cant hold time and life is just too short. I feel that the people i care most about in life are taken from me too soon.. either they are gone... or just fade away!

Losing someone is a permanent thing in this world. However, losing someone becomes somewhat bearable when you have loved that person and have had the chance to say "I LOVE YOU'.

Woman

What woman doesn't like to be surprised by little gestures? what woman doesn't like to dance. to be held. to feel special to the person who is all too special to her. to be given a nice bottle of wine. to be taken to fancy dinners. to be surprised with little thoughtful love notes or gifts. i like public displays of affection. i would adore being serenaded. or to find some proclamation of love on a billboard. but it isn't those grand gestures that matter. if you remember my favourite things, if you just tell me the right thing, if you just make me feel special in the simplest way................. i melt inside.
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As I Mature

I've learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is stalk them and hope they panic and give in.

I've learned that no matter how much I care, some people are just assholes. I've learned that it takes years to build up trust, and it only takes suspicion, not proof, to destroy it.

I've learned that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes. After that, you'd better have a big willy or huge boobs.

I've learned that you shouldn't compare yourself to others - they are more screwed up than you think.

I've learned that you can keep vomiting long after you think you're finished.

I've learned that we are responsible for what we do, unless we are celebrities.

I've learned that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades, and there had better be a lot of money to take its place!

I've learned that 99% of the time when something isn't working in your house, one of your kids did it.

I've learned that the people you care most about in life are taken from you too soon and all the less important ones just never go away.